Here are two resources for accountability as you go online. Men who struggle with pornography (or who have failed in the last year or two) – I encourage to use an accountability software. These softwares send an email to your chosen accountability partners a report of questionable websites you have visited.
Here are two options:
Both of those have monthly fees, but for the sake of purity and if we truly are at war – it is worth the cost. And likely, these options will give great confidence to your spouse as well as personal motivation and accountability for you.
Does anyone know of a free option?